canTANKerous, even though your connection and computer is good (note that I highly disagree that the computer type is even in the whereabouts of our problem here, fact being that the internet connection, regardless of the type, is always the slowest area of data transfer, and would therefore be the first thing which would be suspect), your ping time to the server can still remain low. Even in high-speed connections, distance still greatly affects the speed, and among other things including how many people in your local area are using that connection, which still deteriates play.
Perhaps as a moderator of an online website, you would know of what I speak? If so, then you must now realize the second problem, and then make a conclusion about how this could be better resolved on the part of FlyorDie.