Why? Why do you guys do that EVERY time? Whatever happended to "hi I'm Fudley...what's your name?" It's like being pulled over when you're driving, and the cop says "license and registration." It's RUDE! The last thing I want to tell anybody who demands I respond...is an answer to their question. What happens after that can be even worse...If I simply don't reply (not because I'm a snob, but because I don't like the way I've been talked to) they either get mad, get silent, or ask a/s/l? over and over faster and faster until it's like there is a dog humping my leg. If I do reply... some cut right to the chase..."you got big jugs?"...I was actually asked that, by a person who turned out to be 13 years old. Unbelievable. Now some of you are laughing, some because they've been through it, and others because they can't wait to do it to someone as soon as they get back to the pool room. There isn't really anything I or anyone else can do to stop it. Keep this in mind though...you keep it up, and you rely on that approach, and you're never going to find out anything about anybody in the future...no one is going to be able to stand talking to you...let alone anything else. Speaking for myself (although I know that there are others who feel as I do) I just came into the POOL room because I wanted to shoot POOL. I didn't come in here to find a smooth talking ape man.(boy). If you want to meet people of the opposite $ex...I suggest you try getting off the stupid computer and going outside where there are people to meet. (keeping in mind that you may want to adjust your approach) Also...won't you get in trouble if your mommy catches you acting that way? I have met many many wonderful people here in the pool room, both male and female. I am ALWAYS glad to see them when I log on...I'm not trying to say that this is not the place for social interaction...what I am saying is that some of you...if I could reach you...I would slap you. For those of you who meant no harm, perhaps this will open your eyes...for those of you who continue to do it anyway...there's a reason why all the girls at school treat you like that. Roxanne