Even if it not your fault, the player who loses connection must be declared as the loser of the match, otherwise the system would be too easy to abuse.
Just think about is: if the player with the DC does not lose any points, he can simply disconnect the cable, to simulate an accidental DC, if he is in a bad situation during the match.
It is not possible to tell from our side where did the connection drop exactly, is it your modem cable, or which router or cable is it on the lengthy route between your machine and our server. Usually these disconnects do not occur within our server, but somewhere between the server and your machine. You can check it yourself by the command "tracert www.flyordie.com" in command prompt (right after the DC occurred).
Thank you for your feedback and understanding.