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Contessa

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Stalking harassing for 3 years Posted: Mar 11, 2021 8:32 PM
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Dear Thor, and, anyone that reads this,

I have waited three years to do this. It is not something I enjoy, not at all. I simply know of another way to handle it, other than by frequently telling The Lobby about her abuse of me and posting her nicknames but That would cause people to become angry, defensive, take sides, and leave the format open for more abusive people to rage! Let me say first, that this person might be very nice to others, yet, never to me. Countless times these last 3 years, they shout at me in Private messages this: "I HATE SO MUCH YOU JUDY WITH A MILLION NICKS STOP FOLLOWING ME." This sad and tortured person is under the impression if I go to tables where they happen to be, not knowing or caring if they are there, that I follow them. Nothing could be further from the truth. Sometimes I do see they are at one, however, I'm not one to be intimidated or threatened. I take action as needed.

It is needed now. I have warned them very often I'd do this here if they continued. They have! Methinks sometimes, I have used the Report abuse button. However, her nasty PMs are only one sentence, the same thing over and over, so, not much for MOD to do to help me with. At least, not thus far.

I am reporting only some of her many nicknames. I am no angle with mine, but, most of mine have been banned 2 1/3 years ago by you Thor, rightfully so!

I have counted 12, I have saved some to share here if I felt forced to. It makes me sad to do. Here are a few:
Dear Thor,
I have waited three years to do this. It is not something I enjoy, not at all. I simply know of another way to handle it, other than by frequently telling The Lobby about her abuse of me. That would cause people to become angry, defensive, take sides, and leave the format open for more abusive people to rage! Let me say first, that this person might be very nice to others, yet, never to me. Countless times these last 3 years, they shout at me in Private messages this: "I HATE YOU JUDY WITH A MILLION NICKS STOP FOLLOWING ME." This sad and tortured person is under the impression if I go to tables where they happen to be, not knowing or caring if they are there, that I follow them. Nothing could be further from the truth. Sometimes I do see they are at one, however, I'm not one to be intimidated or threatened. I take action as needed.
It is needed now. I have warned them very often I'd do this here if they continued. They have! Methinks sometimes, I have used the Report abuse button. However, her nasty PMs are only one or two sentences, not much for MOD to do much. At least, not thus far.

I am reporting only some of her many nicknames. I am no angle with mine, but, most of mine have been banned 2 1/3 years ago by you Thor, rightfully so! The amount of nicknames people have is none of my business usually. Here they are:
all of his nickames : Viky_Flor,
Bella Farias, -Gemenis-, GeniouS Zury, Mitchel Kiki_Linda Vilena, Viridiana. and more.

Please ask them to stop the childish and vicious behavior. Enough Is Enough.

Thank you in advance! And, to all the moderators and The Operator for creating this Format for us all to share here. It was a brilliant idea and compassionate one. As usual, I have written a long one. lol, as a writer, it is hard for me not to be wordy! Smile.
Best to everyone,

Judy










Contessa

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Re: Stalking harassing for 3 years PS Posted: Mar 12, 2021 4:06 AM
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Oops, seems I was so upset and didn't check it to edit, I posted some 2 times.

hm, please pardon.

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Re: Stalking harassing for 3 years Posted: Mar 12, 2021 11:46 AM
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hi
judy you angry :s
malik

Contessa

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Re: Stalking harassing for 3 years Posted: Mar 12, 2021 5:19 PM
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Dear Malik,

Yes, I am. Sometimes anger is a good motivator to take the action needed.
Methinks most all would be such, enduring the ugliness I have these last years.

I just hope and pray that somehow this will help this sad mess. Gee, I even tried many times to be nice to her. But, it always backfired! The mean-hearted abuse from them came right back!

Oh well. I love it here and FlyOrDie's people...so whatever happens it feels, deal, and then heal time. : )*

Thanks for your Reply, my best to your family andto you!

Stargazer

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Re: Stalking harassing for 3 years Posted: Mar 27, 2021 10:17 PM
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There is a "mute" button! True, you don't know what is going on around you if you mute your "enemies" but does it matter? My answer would be no, because nobody really can harm you unless you let them!
In my opinion FOD is a gaming platform with a little bit of "social media". You kind of turned it around. Almost all you do is chatting, chatting and chatting. No wonder some people are annoyed. Let them just be annoyed and mute them and everything is fine. Kind regards, Stargazer

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