I am very cautious when someone asks me my asl, more often than not as soon as I say that I am 34 and female I get a lot of sexist remarks and questions, for example:
What bra size are you? What do you look like?
Can I have a pic of you, naked if possible? Do you have a web cam, can you pose for me and I will do the same?
The questions usually get more graphic as the game go's on, and if you don't answer these creeps they then start to give you more verbal abuse by calling you names. If you leave a game these players usually follow you into the lobby and start to say that you are a cheat to other players.There should be no need to ask someone their asl if you are here to play 8 or 9 ball
Why can't Flyordie ban the asking of asl's. There is no need to know the asl of the other player, I am sure that if you chat to someone on here during a game your opponant will tell you their asl if they want you to know it. More often than not the only reason you get asked your asl on here is to find out what sort of 'target' you are for these creeps. If you are not what they are looking for they usually quit a game and try to find another 'victim to prey on'.
I have played and chatted to many people on Flyordie and it is only when I feel confident that I am under no threat of abuse that I will tell the other player my asl.
If I am asked my asl at the very begining of a game I quite often tell them that I am '175 /haemaphrodite /from somewhere in the universe'. This usually shuts them up.
Give you a game one day DmcDevil, and I won't ask you for your asl, and I won't quit the game either.