I kinda understand - when you think it's going to miss, you make a couple of pixel corrections and it works. However, the same movement using the new system (in the other direction) doesn't achieve the same results?
Personally I believe that you'll get used to being able to visualise the shots using the new way. However, I agree that it would be nice if a new download version included more personalisation. Technically it's possible - and I would imagine not too difficult - to have options for dots and fine aim settings. This would also provide another incentive for people to subscribe. Why not even add options for different music, more fx (crowd noise might be amusing), and even different cue and table appearence?
Failing that, I think that FoD should be diplomatic find out which system is the most preferred by their users.